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Is Demi Lovato a Closeted Bisexual? Untold Secrets from the Songstress’ Life

Sabina Gartaula Mon Feb, 2018
Is Demi Lovato a Closeted Bisexual? Untold Secrets from the Songstress’ Life

Demetria Devonne Lovato, a.k.a. Demi Lovato is an American singer and actress who has an estimated net worth of $20 million as of 2018. She is best known as a former Disney star who appeared in numerous Disney films and TV shows alongside artists like Miley Cyrus, Selena Gomez, Joe Jonas, Nick Jonas and many others. 

Demi has also been quite honest when it comes to her personal life and fans appreciate it a lot. Demi started abusing drugs at the age of 17 during her Disney Channel Days. She even shared in her documentary that she was either craving drugs or was on drugs during those days, especially cocaine. Moreover, she only got help at the age of 18, and it was very hard for her and she did it. This turned out to be not only a good thing for her, but she also came out as an inspiration for many of her fans who were struggling with the same problem. 

This is not the only way she has inspired her fans, she is also fighting eating disorder, mental disorder and is a huge supporter of the LGBT community. Her single I Really Don't Care was dedicated to the community, and she is a go-to star for every LGBT member out there. 


@fabletics #Demi4Fabletics

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Now that we are on the topic of LGBT, there have been many claims and rumors about Demi Lovato being either a lesbian or bisexual. She has dated numerous handsome men in the industry throughout the years, but there were many questions and rumors regarding her sexuality. And after her breakup with her long-term boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama, the rumors have just escalated to a whole new level. 

Below we have listed why Demi might be a closeted lesbian/ bisexual. Continue reading to find out more.

Australian DJ Ruby Rose claimed she slept with Demi Lovato? Is Demi Bisexual?

This is indeed one of the first rumors claiming that Demi is a lesbian/bisexual. In 2013, Australian DJ Ruby Rose, who is best known as the host of Australia's Next Top Model and for her recurring role on the Netflix series Orange Is The New Black, posted a tweet related to Demi that shook the internet. 

In the Twitter post that has since been removed, the DJ shared that she slept with Demi and was the only one who didn't sell her naked photos. 

Ruby Rose's tweet about Demi

Ruby Rose's tweet about sleeping with Demi

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There was no substantial base for the claim, so Demi's fans and friends started attacking Rose on social media. Demi took very long to respond to the claim. She later said that she did not, in fact, date Rose.  

Demi's song 'Cool For The Summer' is about her same-sex experience

Demi released her single Cool for the Summer, from the album Confident, on 1st July 2015. The platinum-certified track gained a lot of love from Demi's fans all over the world, and it even became a new gay anthem very soon. 

Watch Demi Lovato's Cool For The Summer Music Video

According to theories, the song is about the singer's lesbian experience that happened in the summer. The lyrics, which says, ' a taste of the cherry' and 'I just need to take a bite,' somehow sounds like Katy Perry's I Kissed a Girl where she shared her experience of kissing a girl and loving the taste of the Cherry chapstick. 

Likewise, there are many sexual references related to same-sex in the song which made fans re-think about Demi's sexuality. 

When asked about the song, Demi said that she was not confirming or denying her lesbianism, but that all her songs are based on her real experiences.

During an interview with Alan Carr, Demi shared:

I'm mot confirming and I'm definitely not denying. All my songs are based off of personal experiences. I don't think there's anything wrong with experimentation at all. 

During the interview with Carr, Demi also had a lot to say about why it was fine and how she found it very attractive for a man to say that he has experimented with another man. 

Watch the interview here

Moving on, there also have been many claims that song is dedicated to Demi's sexual encounter with the aforementioned Australian DJ Ruby Rose who claimed to have slept with her. Nonetheless, even if the song has not been confirmed to have been dedicated to Rose, it is about her lesbian experience. 

Demi spotted holding hands and getting very comfy with her alleged girlfriend at Disneyland

Demi Lovato announced her breakup with her long-term boyfriend Wilmer Valderrama through a joined social media post. The pair started dating back on 5th August 2010 and decided to call it quits a year later on 3rd June 2016. 

In the sentimental Instagram post, the couple wrote that they decided to end their relationship after six loving years and that, despite the split, they would still stay best friends.


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But in September 2017, Demi was spotted together with DJ Lauren Abedini at Disneyland. And not just that, Demi and Lauren, who is known as a feminist and a lesbian, were spotted holding hands and looked very cozy together.

Their pictures were taken by numerous fans who were at the theme park at the time. Some of them show Demi reaching her hands out to Lauren's but also kind of caressing it. 

In the same month, on September 29, 2017, Demi released another title track Tell Me You Love Me. soon enough, fans started claiming that the song was dedicated to her new girlfriend Lauren Abedini.

Demi has not spoken anything about the song being dedicated to anyone, but she had a lot to say about her sexuality after the incident. 

Demi does not want to clarify her sexuality

After Demi's visit to Disneyland with Lauren Abedini made colossal news, Demi was showered with numerous questions related to the incident and her sexuality. During her interview with Pride Source, the singer did not answer any questions on the topic. But she did say something important.

Demi said:

I love who I love. I just feel like everyone's always looking for a headline and they always want their magazine or TV show or whatever to be the one to break what my sexuality is. I feel like it's irrelevant to what my music is all about.

Moreover, the actress also got very frustrated with all the questions being showered on her as she tweeted that she did not owe anyone an explanation. 

Take a look at the tweet

Later on, she also shared through Twitter that those who were curious about her sexuality should take a look at her documentary.

Demi's documentary, Demi Lovato: Simply Complicated, was uploaded on YouTube on 17th October 2017. The one-hour-18-minute-long video shares Demi's struggle with drug addiction, eating disorder, mental problem and her sexuality. 

Watch the documentary here

The documentary consists some never seem videos of the singer. Among other things, it reveals that Demi uses the secretive dating app called Raya. She says to her stylist:

I am on a dating app with both men and girls. I am open to human connection so whether that’s through a male or female, it doesn’t matter to me. … I do like athletes, there is something sexy about someone putting in all of their physical strength into their passion.

So, she actually does kind of open up about her sexuality in the documentary and fans found to very interesting of her to do so. Moreover, her LGBT fans were over the moon to know that their idol was also part of the LGBT community.

At the moment, the 25-year-old singer is rumored to be in a relationship with American dancer JoJo Gomez. The duo has been spotted on stage performing on Demi's single Cool for the Summer

Demi has a huge girl crush on Bad Girl RiRi

In Jan of 2015, Demi appeared alongside Ellen DeGeneres on The Ellen Show and played Who'd You Rather. This is a very common game that Ellen makes her guests play on the show. 

Basically, Ellen shows pictures of two celebrities on the screen from which the guest has to choose one. When Demi was given the choice between Harry Styles and The Weeknd, she chose Harry. 

Watch Demi play Who'd You Rather on The Ellen Show

Then she had to choose between Harry and Rihanna, and after that, it was all Rihanna. She was offered choices like Zac Efron, Milo Ventimiglia, Drake, Rita Ora, Chance the Rapper and others. But she only chose Rihanna until the other choice was Niall Horan.

Towards the end, Demi chose Kristen Stewart as well, but again when Ellen gave her a chance to choose between Stewart and Rihanna, she ended up choosing Rihanna again. 

Well, this was all just fun and games and, let's face it, Bad Girl RiRi is irresistible. Additionally, the game need not have anything to do with Demi's sexuality because who would not choose Rihanna, like hello? 

Watch Demi's gayest moments with and without JoJo

Regardless of her sexuality, Demi is an inspirational woman who has motivated numerous people to do better in their life. Her being straight, lesbian or bisexual makes no difference to who she is. And since Demi has already revealed that she is interested in both men and women, it is high time that we put the question to rest.