In 1990, Ayu got married for the first time in her life and that was with Wisnu Djodi Gondokusumo. As a loving husband and wife, they also had a son together. They continued this married life for few years and they got divorced.
In September 1994, Ayu tied her married knot for the second time in her life with Teemu Yusuf Ibrahim. They were bonded into this married life for several years and they also had three children together. They are now divorced.
In 2008, Ayu was spotted with Mike Tramp having romantic love affairs with him. Mike Tramp is a singer and songwriter from Netherlands and he is best known for being the member of the hard rock bands, White Lion and Freak of Nature. They got married in 2010. Her nationality is Indonesian and she has mixed ethnicity.
At the age of 15, Ayu made her acting debut by starring in a 1984 movie Akibat Buah Terlarang (Effects from the Forbidden Fruit). This role earned her a place in Director Teguh Karya's stage drama Pernikahan Darah (Blood Wedding). In 1986, she was seen in an Indonesian film Ibunda. At the end of 1980s, she appeared in the movie Pacar Ketinggalan Kereta. She is also critically acclaimed for her role in the movie Dua Kekasih (Two Lovers). Besides being such a popular actress, she is also a talented writer and an author. She has authored a book on the dangers of voyeurism. She has an average height and her net worth is unknown.